Men Express Themselves
Women say it over
and over: "How come every guy wants to end the 1st date with
Well, guys, you know the answer! So, can we share it with the ladies? What? You don't believe that they will believe it? Come on, now! We at least have to try.
Once upon a time, there
was a nerd who became a popular guy. And, he was a virgin. Yes, he
did date prior to his makeover, and yes, he did get to assorted
'bases'. Yet, he was still technically a virgin.
This fellow had multiple instances of this. And, wondered what happened to his expectations as to how a woman should behave. And, what women wanted men to do, early on in a relationship.
Now, fast forward to my
Single Life seminars. During most classes, women would typically
complain that guys only want one thing: sex.
So, here's a dilemma
faced by many men.
Likewise, there are men... Virgins and non-virgins... Who simply want to see where a romantic friendship would lead, before risking sexually transmitted diseases or an unplanned pregnancy.
Then you have the scenario where women go to a 'Singles, Meat Market' nightclub. A place where hooking-up is the hoped for and expected outcome for the evening. So, why do these women find themselves turned-off when they get what they seemed to desire? You wouldn't go camping where bears are known to roam, wild, and act surprised when a bear tore through your tents and provisions. (Would you? And, 'no', I am not excusing boorish/ rude behavior.)
Bottom-line here is
that men get mixed signals from so many women, that it is near
impossible to figure out what they should do, if they wish to develop
an ongoing romance.
Russell Irving is a media-acclaimed, expert on Single Life, Marriage, and more. – His book, Improve Your Marriage – Don’t Overlook The Obvious applies to couples in a 'long term relationship' and is available at Amazon.com, BarnesAndNoble.com, as well as the book’s companion site, www.DontOverlookTheObvious.com . Check out his YouTube channel, ImprovingMarriages. His Facebook page is Russell Irving. And, Twitter name is RussIrving.
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